Creating Fast Connection with Girls
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by: GabrielAngelo
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Date: Tue, 4 Jan 2011 Time: 1:17 PM
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If you want to create extreme rapport with a woman you have just met, you eventually want your vibe to be in sync with hers. The vibe is the vibrational energy you are transmitting to other people, almost like your own radio frequency.
During the first approach and interaction, you want your vibe to be slightly higher than hers; this conveys high-energy and all the other aspects that is correlated with producing attraction such as humor, dominance, and cockiness. Eventually you will have to lower that vibe to sync with hers before you 2 depart if you want her to have interest in seeing you again.
Being cocky, dominant, and the funny guy does not create the deep rapport from being stranger to somebody she wants to date. This only grabs her attention to notice you as an interesting person, and later you wonder why the next time you call her up or try to get her to hang out, she completely forgets and doesn't remember who you are, even though you 2 were laughing at each others' jokes, and without a doubt having a good damn time, and you prematurely concluded just because she was having a good time, you got her eating out of the palm of your hand!
What happened She could have been drunk or possibly under the influence on some stimuli, but you are still just a stranger in her eyes. Why would she go through all the works of getting ready, putting on make-up and spend times with you while she could be hanging with her friends?
Being a woman, is a lot more complicated than us guys. She goes through a conflicting life where she has to present herself in one way to live up to society's expectation and standards and supresses that other part of who she really is.
Most guys won't do this because they don't want to be perceived as a nice guy or fall into the friend zone, so they maintain acting like the clown. This is not the case. This is revealing another side of you. You already conveyed yourself as this exciting and intriguing guy to her, now surprise her with this other part of you you did not notice before and build that deep connection.
About the Author
Gabriel Angelo runs http://www.socialnatural.com, with the unique approach to dating and meeting women, by focusing on developing your "social skills" to be the most socially savvy person you can be, not just with women...but everybody. Although the arts are primarily related to dating and attracting women, they can be applied to other aspects of your life from social, dating, personal, and even professional.
For more information, please visit http://www.socialnatural.com.
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